Subject: He listens to you Steve, not to me.

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend is an avid listener and Steve, your word is the Gospel because you “keep it real”  have been through many things that he has been through. So naturally, I bring this to you. I met this man when he was still married six years ago and I understood that…
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Subject: After 20 Years He Got to Go

Dear Steve and Shirley… Tell me the truth… after 20 years, 18 of them being married, he joined a car club, but he couldn’t get along with the leader.  So he started his own club, now he thinks he is God, kicking people out the club for dumb things.  He judges everybody, and treats me…
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Subject: Online social sites are ruining my relationship!

Dear Shirley and Steve, I know this may not seem like a huge issue to everyone, but it’s killing me.  Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we have a really good relationship. We love each other and planned to get married and start a family one day. But…
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Subject: Is anybody lonely?

Hey Uncle Steve and Shirley, I’m in need of some good solid advice. I’m 27 and I’ve been single since forever. One of my close friends set me up on a blind date with her fiancé’s homeboy and he is also 27. We were only supposed to “hook up,” nothing serious, from time to time….
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Subject: I live with two lazy men

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a widowed mother of two adult sons, 19 and 21 years old. I recently lost my job because the company went bankrupt. My 2 sons, who live with me, are presently not working and apparently think I’m still supposed to take care of the them and provide a roof over…
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Subject: He’s stressing me out

Good morning Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old woman with 2 children, but my kids live with my parents right now because of too much arguing going on in my household. I have been working on the relationship I’m in and recently things became worse. He accused me of cheating on him…
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Subject: He had an affair and now they’re just friends

Hi Steve and Shirley, I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years off and on. Five years ago he stepped outside of the relationship and I was blindsided. He admitted it. He said that it happened once and it would never happen again. So here we are years later and the female that he…
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Subject: Should I tell her fiancé about us?

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married man with kids, but I have one baby mama that I can’t escape. My daughter’s mom recently fell out with her fiancé and they stopped talking and having sex. So, all of a sudden, she started confiding in me with late night phone calls and long talks   when…
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Subject: He prefers texting over talking

Hi Steve and Shirley, I am a woman in my early 40s and so is my boyfriend. Things were great between us at first and then he started going through some things mentally and financially. Anytime he and I have a problem, he talks to me through emails and texts. We’ve had several heated discussions…
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Subject: Smoking Mad

Good morning Steve and Shirley, I am smoking mad! I recently started dating a good guy and he seemed to have everything I wanted. He’s a single dad of four and a hard-working man. He told me that he has found what he is looking for and he is dating me with a purpose. As…
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