Am I Doing The Right Thing

Dear Steve And Shirley, I Am Really Confused About What I Should Do. I Was Married With My First Child When I Was Only 18 Years Old. Soon After My Husband Cheated On Me With Several Different Women And Even Got One Pregnant. I Didn’t Find Out Until I Found The Abortion Papers In His…
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My Man’s Ex Comes Over Every Thanksgiving

Steve and the Morning Crew, I am a 33 year old successful woman with no children. I am in love with a man who is 35, successful with no children either. He has taken me on vacations and has romanced me very well. I feel so grateful for having him in my life. We have…
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Longing for my Mother

Good Morning Shirley, Steve, Tommy. I am a 20 year old student in Greensboro NC. I am 12 weeks pregnant and I am really feeling lonely at this time. When I found out I was pregnant and told the father of the child he informed me that he wanted nothing to do with this baby….
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Me, Him and her credit

Steve and Team! I am confused about marriage! Maybe it’s this day and age and marriage is not what I thought it was! I have questions? Man o man. So I married this man who already had everything. I moved into his house. Which he reminds me of when he is angry! Is it just…
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Our Co-Worker has a problem with body odor

Dear Steve and Shirley – For quite some time now I and some of my female black co-workers have been discussing a very delicate problem. We are all women in our fifties who thought we could deal with just about anything. However, a little over a year ago we got a new co-worker (also a…
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WHERE DO I BEGIN!!!!!

  First of all Hello Steve Shirley Carla and Tommy, I live in a small southern town in Georgia, so say no more. I recently moved to Florida 10 months ago to the big city of Jacksonville for a better paying job. A month after i moved there i met a wonderful man, who i…
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Scratching My Head In The Sunshine State

Dear Steve, I recently met a lady down here in the Sunshine State” who at first seemed to be a woman of high esteem, full of honesty and integrity. She is over the age of 40. I am over 50. Both of us are divorced for several years. She is self-employed. I am retired. We…
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Men that cant be men

Hello Steve and morning crew. Ive known my boyfriend for over 17 years and til this day I’ve neverjudged him or anyone else. Understanding that everyone has a background its just hard for me to watch him try and try to find a job and turned down because of mistakes made years ago. We live…
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Why did he dump me?

I was dumped via text yesterday. I met him in Dec 2012 at my cousin’s event. We communicate via text and phone for over a year. He did not want to do a long distance relationship. So I resigned myself to be friends. After he came to visit, dynamics began to change. A month or…
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Please Hit My Twin Sister Up Side Her Head Will All Your Bricks, Steve!

Let me start off by saying I wish was lying or exaggerating. Neither is the case. My twin sister and I are 44 years old. Yes 44 even though what you are about to hear wouldn’t make you think so. My heart is so broken right now because my twin sister is really being made…
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