He won’t cleave and Leave

Dear Steve and Shirley; I am a 22 year old woman who has just married my high school sweetheart 7 months ago. Many people said that we were too young to get married, but I love him. I am a 22 year old who holds both a bachelor’s and Master’s degree. I currently teach 5th…
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Frustrated in the church!

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently broke up with an ex boyfriend of mine and I personally had no hard feelings towards him. I’ve moved on and I am currently in a relationship. However, my ex and I go to the same church and I’ve noticed that he has being doing petty things to annoy…
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Just A Baby Daddy

Dear Steve and Shirley I’m a 53-year-old single woman I have two adult children ages 30 and 33. I am a single-parent and raised both of my children without the help of their father. I met a man a year ago he is 46 and has one child age 8. He said he moved to…
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I just don’t understand

    Good morning, Let me try to make this long story short… I have been with my husband for 15 yrs; we have three handsome sons 14, 12 and 7 we have been married for going on 9yrs {marriage is great, we are still on our honey moon}. Okay my husband has always been…
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Possibly caring another man’s baby

so i had recently had a event at my school that i had went to some time ago and while being there i seen a guy i would sometimes to the dirty with he was so sweet and we were the best of friends so when it was over he kissed me and i didnt…
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What’s going on?

    Hello Steve, Shirley. My wife and I married 2 years ago, both of us bringing children into the marriage. I have 1 and she has 3. But to me, just because I am in the picture doesn’t exempt the biological fathers from their responsibilities. My wife constantly says “these are my (meaning her)…
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my ex husband charged me rent

My ex husband charged me rent because my twelve year old came in his home at 2:45 am on a school night and told him that he was the man of the home and he jumped in his face an hit and spit on him then my ex husband beat the heck out of my…
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Should the other woman attend the funeral

Should The Other Woman Attend His Funeral? I recently attended a funeral of a 60+ year old whose brother is a friend of mine. There was an open mike segment, allowing anyone who wanted to to come forward and share memories about the deceased. There were many accolades, especially about how he had been such a good…
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Tired of Living a Lie

Subject: Tired of living a lie Dear Shirley and Steve I have three man in my life. Let me start off  by tell something about each one. Guy number one- we have been  together for 7yrs. we live together, I love him but I’ve come to realize  that I am not in love with him….
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Husband wants me to be unfaithful.

My husband and I have been married 34 + years. When we first got married, he was insanely jealous and if he thought I even looked at another man, he went off the deep end. The last few years, our sex life has took a dark turn (at least in my mind). My husband cannot…
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