I want to date my sister’s ex-boyfriend

    Hi Steve, I have a problem that I need help with. I have been recently hanging out with some one who I known for 12 years now, we have a great friendship. Recently we have been flirting with each other and I really like him. I’m interested in taking our friendship to the…
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Secrecy

Hi Steve I recently found out my companion (living together 2 yrs)picked up a woman who was walking across town to meet someone because her car broke down. Not only did he give her a ride HE GOT HER CELL PHONE NUMBER! Sooo I logged in to his account & found where he had text…
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I’m Tired of his PMS! They say it takes a real man to cry…..I guess my man is TOO real for me!

Dear Shirley & Steve, I’ve been in a relationship for almost two years, and I was truly happy in the beginning. Sadly, for the past 9 months I’ve became exhausted trying to deal with this crybaby of a man, my boyfriend has become. I’m not sure if is he’s undercover gay, because he has been…
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Marital affair

Dear Mr. Harvey and gang, as of Oct 7, 2014, I have been separated from the man I love, my husband Mr. B. Six years ago, I met my husband at work. Little did I know he was living with his married lover. Some background info- they both were married and she took care of…
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Brown Sugar

Dear Shirley and Steve, I am writing on behalf of my confused co-worker. She has been dating this guy for about 2 years now and is still unsure about if he’s the “one”. But here is the twist, she has this childhood friend that she grew up with and lately she has been growing feelings…
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Divorce or Cheat?

Hello Shirley and Steve I am a 45 year old African American and my wife is a 43 year old African American. I’ve been married to her for 5 years now. This is my 2nd marriage. We have a 4 year old child together. My present wife and I am a very attractive couple. I…
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Broke into Neighbors House, Wife was Away!

I have had a crush on my neighbor for years, he has never paid me any attention. So what I thought was when his wife/girlfriend was away I would start trying to hit on him. So when I saw him heading for the store I would go to the store, when he would go to…
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My mom’s a begger!

Dear Mr. Harvey and Mrs. Strawberry My mom has a serious problem and as you can tell by the title “she begs”. I am a 28 year old female and my mom raised me to never beg for anything. My problem now is SHE BEGS and from people we don’t know and it’s becoming embarrassing….
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Real Friendship, or just fooled.

Good Morning all and thanks for the real advice that is given every morning on your show. I will get straight to the point. I am a 40 + year old Southern woman who loves life, my husband, my family and my friends. I am also a full time working active duty military wife in…
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How to get the man I love back, and walk away from this “marriage”?

Good day Steve and Shirley, I am in need of some advice on what I should do. I always knew that I was created to be a wife and a mother. I made it my mission in life to be a great mom to my babies they are my world but finding the right person…
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